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[Re-blogged from August 2014]
Robin Williams, our beloved “O Captain,” hung himself on August 11, 2014, in his own home. Despite a life-long struggle with addictions autopsy reports confirm neither drugs of alcohol played a factor in this death. I have heard it said a lot on social media that losing Robin Williams was like losing a family member who you never really knew. He was the kind of entertainer who made us laugh and cry, cheer and scream, and even sometimes cringe. Robin Williams often said the things we wanted to say but would not or could not say. To me, he celebrated the very best and worse of the human soul all at once. Sure, he was a funny man and even sometimes too crude for my taste; but he was also a soft-hearted, sensitive, deeply profound man whose work inspired the best in many of us.
It is funny because I never knew him and yet I grew up with him. I remember watching the TV screen the very first time America saw him in Prime-Time when Robin Williams appeared on it on the TV Show Happy Days in 1978. I was eight years old.
What was less noticeable was that this silly, yet heart-warming alien on my TV was a life long addict suffering from depression, alcoholism, cocaine addiction, as well as multiple failed marriages and embarrassingly publicly reported STDS. After 20 years of sobriety, by 2003 Williams was back into a free-fall with alcohol and depression, which began to isolate him from his career and Hollywood’s willingness to take a risk on him at the box office. Folks close to him also report he felt humiliated that he had to return to TV after such a stellar film career. And if that was not bad enough, the show’s ratings crashed through the floor and the show was canceled in its first year in May. I highlight his struggles not to belittle his memory because honestly, he is on my list of a handful of celebrities who I see as being great human beings. I highlight his fall from grace to tell you it can happen to anyone! Let’s make it clear to everyone out there so that there can be no doubt about it that alcoholism, drug addiction, and depression are real beasts that live in our world that can’t be played with and must be dealt with or they will destroy us. What Robin William teaches us is no matter how rich, or how popular, or how beloved (even by millions) you are depression and addictions will still murder you. So I write this blog to say please take them seriously both in your life and in the life of those you love. Let us never mistake someone’s outward joy and laughter as inward calm and peace. It is often those who laugh loudest who are also cut the deepest.
Jesus said, “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” (John 10:10 ESV)
HOLLYWOOD, Academy Award-winning actor Robin Williams wears a clown nose as he places his hands in cement during his hand and footprint ceremony outside Mann’s Chinese Theatre. Williams starred in the critically acclaimed film “Patch Adams” about a doctor who uses humor to help heal his patients. AFP PHOTO/Vince BUCCI (Photo credit should read Vince Bucci/AFP/Getty Images)
The truth is that the thief came and the thief broke into the life of Robin and killed and destroyed. Mental Illness is nobody’s fault it comes from a combination of living in a dark, dark sin-soaked world, in concert with the chemical makeup of your brain. Additionally, it is being reported that Robin was recent diagnose with Dementia and at the time of his death may not have been fully aware of in control of his actions. It is true he did not die of alcohol and drugs like many stars but they had ravished away years of his life leaving deep scars in his soul. Robin who was once one of the brightest lights of the last 40 years had touched countless of lives. I want to believe that the man I grew up with and loved did not kill himself, he did not hang himself. The way I see it, Robin Williams did not kill himself at all rather despite what the official report will say he was murdered! In short, the thief broke into his life through his vices of addictions and killed and destroyed our beloved Robin Williams. It is through our vices that the devil gains a foothold in our lives and cast us to the ground and tramples us. But it is through our faith Jesus picks us up from the ashes of our failures and gives us life and life more abundantly! Please, I beg you all, fight the good fight, and let Jesus give you life, let Him close the vices of your life and keep the devil out.
Oh, Captain! My Captain!
In my favorite Robin William’s movie “Dead Poets Society” Robin Williams played a teacher named John Keating who teaches his students how to live life like it has a purpose. His students lovingly call him, “Captain, My Captain” which is a quote from a Walt Whitman poem. They call him this as a way of showing him respect for showing them how to live life in Carpe diem mode. When one of the students commits suicide under the high stress of school and an abusive family life John Keating (Robin Williams) is blamed, railroaded and fired. Todd Anderson a deeply insecure and troubled youth who has been greatly helped in life by John Keating is conflicted because he knows his teacher has been railroaded but is fearful to stand up for him and get expelled. When John Keating comes to collect his things from the classroom Todd stands on top of his desk as a sign of defiance to the institution disrupting the class and salutes his teacher saying, “O’Captain My Captain!” This sets off a chain reaction of students standing on their desk saying, “O’Captain My Captain!” and John Keating (Robin Williams) leaves his classroom not feeling defeated but knowing in his soul he taught the message he came to teach; “courage is more powerful than fear.”
Robin Williams appears onstage at Comedy Central’s ‘Night Of Too Many Stars: An Overbooked Concert For Autism Education’ at the Beacon Theatre in New York, Saturday, October 2, 2010. (AP Photo/Charles Sykes)
Today Robin, my old childhood friend, I stand on my desk saying, “Captain my Captain; lesson learned, message received.” And I’ll add to that, let us all keep looking to the Ultimate Captain of all Captains in our times of depression and addictions for He (Jesus) has come to give us life more abundantly.
Blog Post Script 2017:
In September of 2016 Susan Schneider, Robin Williams wife came out publicly and blamed Lewy bodies disease for the death of her husband. At the time it was being misdiagnosed as Parkinson’s disease and was causing paranoia. He was only correctly diagnosed postmortem.